why do u care so much bout wat others think bout u? the most important thing is that u know who you r and wat's ur role. wat others think doesn't matter, it s just an understatement nothing else..It might not really b true, no matter what believe in urself, than others will believe in u. if what they say is true than take ur time to think how u can change. And if u asked if u are like that and someone tells u the truth, change, bcause wat u do could oso hurt others be aware of others needs and be aware of ur own as well... as long as u dun treat someone badly, ur life would be settled,Fighting Fire with Fire just makes a bigger fire,it does not solve anything.Care for one another, think twice b4 doing something, ur actions, thoughts and words all could kill someone...Ur tongue is the deadliest part of our body. if u know u are this way, it may b a habit or mayb not, but take time to think about it and change wat u can change. 4 example being straight foward, it is good to b honest its ok, but being honest about wat negative things about a person is not so great it cuts someone deeper than any blade possibily can. ur tongue, mind,actions hurt more than anything. Being sensetive is ok, but being overly sensitive is bad, if u know u are that way change, u matter the same amount as anyone else, ur important in one or another person's life. no matter what, me as ur friend will b here. let me ask u wat r u willing to sacrifice for somone ur close to?Here's a story; once there was a man, his wife asked him: "if mother n I were drowning in the ocean, who would u save first?" the man replied: "mum" the moment the wife heard it, she ran out of the room, the man ran after her grabbed her hand and said:" i would save mother first than jump back in, swim to u and die together with u ,no matter wat, i always always will stand by u." Listen to others fully b4 doing anything, having mistaken someone could lose u a friendship....