as time passes, people change. whether good or bad, optimistic or pessimistic, and whatever happens ppl can't control you and you can't control it,you're an audience in your life and an audience in other ppl lives. you laugh at your mistakes,maybe feel a little sad, but u make a big fuss of other ppl's mistakes. maybe you talk behind their back or maybe you make fun of it, at the end of the day you won't be the one hurt, the other party would be hurt, what if it was the other way round? What would you do? if ppl are hurt, say sorry or comfort them, if you get hurt, you choose what you want to do,if you didn't want ppl to comfort you just say 'sorry but leave me alone for awhile' they'll understand. Don't scream and shout and get angry at them,they might turn angry at you instead,its a free world ppl choose who they want to turn out to be. Do the right thing. Understand ppl. the way you treat ppl is the way you will be treated back